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By Jay E. Moyes and Lady Bastette
Glossary:
Play party: Where
people in the BDSM scene go to meet and play.
Munch: Where
people in the BDSM scene meet in a public space (usually a restaurant,
hence the name munch). These events usually require non-fetish attire or
street clothes.
Leather
Social: A larger scale version of a munch where people in the BDSM
scene can act and dress a little more freely.
Orientation:
A meeting where an organization has
a chance to meet and introduce prospective members to existing members,
gives information to new members and discusses their rules and
regulations.
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Salutations,
Yahoo has really done it this time. Black Beat
L.A.'s YahooGroup vaporized, even though my start page indicated there were
new messages. New Orleans Bondage and Leather Enthusiasts have also converted
back to their website for their event listings (YAY!), and I suspect that
their group has also been locked. I don't have direct confirmation of that
yet, but it's what I suspect caused the change.
Many in the porn industry and the BDSM community rely on YahooGroups for
exchanging information and social activity. However, Yahoo claims it has
specific policies about adult material in YahooGroups. We have no idea what
exactly those policies are, but they wield them regularly. We've lost half a
dozen groups for no visible reason. They just disappear.
I have been asked by quite a few people in the community why I don't have
listings for YahooGroups that don't have independent websites posting their
calendars as well. This is the number one reason. Nothing is worse than losing
a group's event calendar to YahooGroup's "policies." I boycott
YahooGroups for ethical reasons, and I wish more people would as well.
Especially those in the bdsm and leather communities. We have enough
challenges without YahooGroup censorship.
There are some alternatives out there. Myspace.com
seems to be created more for musicians than organizations, and that gives it a
dramatic edge. Graphics play a bigger role on Myspace than on YahooGroups, and
there is a lot of room to customize. Smartgroups.com
isn't as radical as Myspace, but they're attracting a fair slice of the exiles
from YahooGroups. Domcon, and Lair De Sade now call Smartgroups home.
Are there other options? Well, many websites are adding forums and chat rooms.
Why not take the next step and add a forum to your web page? You may also want
to consider some of the adult boards on Bondage.com,
or thefetishforums.com.
There are some real alternatives out there. Take a step out of the Y-box and
have a look around.

Jay has been very busy creating wonderful fetish
art pieces in his dramatic pen and ink style. Jay's art work is available
through www.cafepress.com/jaymoyes.To
peruse his portfolio, check out www.jaymoyes.com.
Events for
Tuesday, April 19th through Monday, April 25th, 2005
San Francisco and Northern California
The Power
Exchange sex club and dungeon is open to the public, every night
from 9:00pm - 4:00am. There is a sliding scale entry fee, rates change on
different nights according to the theme of the evening. Please see the club's
website for details, at www.powerexchange.com.
Tuesday, April 19th 7:00pm - 9:00pm
Hayward Academy of Caring Kinksters is having a munch in Hayward,
CA. For details on reaching the Munch please
visit the web site at Hack.dalatest.com.
Tuesday, April 19th 7:00pm - 9:00pm There's a
munch in Moss Landing,
California. People must be over 18 to attend.
for location information, send an email to MBayKinksters-subscribe@yahoogroups.com.
Tuesday, April 19th 7:30pm - 10:00pm The Society
of Janus is having a business meeting. This meeting is open t all members of
Janus. For information on joining, or on the meeting, check out www.soj.org.
Every Wednesday 8:00pm - 10:00pm The Palo
Alto Munch takes place in Sunnyvale,
California. For location information, visit www.TheMunch.org.
Every Wednesday San Francisco's legendary Bondage
a Go - Go packs them in for fantasy, fetish and lots of play. For more
information, check out www.bondage-a-go-go.com.
Thursday, April 21st 7:30pm - 10:00pm QSM
hosts the class Taming the Temple Slave: Spiritual Flogging and the Ritual
Infliction of Pain with Soleil Sinclair & dragon. Class cost is $20 per
person. An RSVP is required because the class can only accommodate 25 people. To
reserve your space, RSVP by email to qsm@sonic.net.
Thursday, April 21st 7:30pm Smack 'n' Play
meets for a munch, followed by an evening of play at the Power
Exchange down the block. For details on special Power Exchange rates for
munch members, send an RSVP email to GARi7@ix.netcom.com.
Thursday, April 21st 8:00pm - 10:00pm SF
Citadel has a class planned for tonight. Predicament bondage will be
discussed in What a Lovely Predicament You Have Gotten Yourself Into.
Admission is $20 per person. For class information, visit www.sfcitadel.org.
Every Thursday 8:00pm - 10:00pm There's a new
munch in town. Check out the Sunnyvale Bodyart Munch in Sunnyvale,
CA. New friends and regulars gather to
discuss alternative lifestyles of all types at this munch. For more information,
drop an email to carol@bylorac.com.
Thursday, April 21st 8:00pm - 10:00pm smOdyssey
presents the panel discussion, BDSM/Leather History and Traditions in San
Jose, CA. A suggested donation of $5 - $15 on a sliding scale is requested.
RSVPs are appreciated, but not required. For details, check out www.smodyssey.com.
Saturday, April 23rd 11:00am - 1:00pm The
Marysville Yuba City Munch meets in Downtown
Marysville, California. For location
information, drop a line to Sierraflowr@comcast.net.
Sunday, April 24th 11:00am - 2:00pm The Lake
County Munch invites all interested persons for lunch in Lakeport,
CA. Contact Missconduct53@aol.com,
for more information
Sunday, April 24th 7:00pm - 9:00pm The smOdyssey
sponsored d/s group is having a meeting in San
Jose, California. The group is open to anyone
interested in discussing the d/s dynamic. You don't have to be a member of any
group to attend. For more information, see www.smOdyssey.com.
Monday, April 25th Pleasure Bound has a
no-host munch in Sacramento.
Everyone 18 years of age and older is welcome. For details regarding the munch,
please send email to info@PleasureBoundParties.org.
Ask for munch information.
Monday, April 25th 7:30pm - 9:30pm Rae and
Jon invite you to the San Francisco Rope Bondage Peer Workshop at the SF
Citadel. A $5 - $10 recommended donation, is asked to help cover venue costs.
There's a lot of information on the workshop at www.sfrope.org.
Every Monday you can grab a bite at the Bat
Munch in Santa Cruz, California.
For details on the munch, email BatMunch@castlewalker.com.
New York and Surrounding Areas
Tuesday, April 19th 7:30pm - 11:00pm TES
and PEP get together as Nancy Ava Miller teaches the class, The Enema Within:
Confessions Of An Anal Addict. For details on the class, see the calendar at
tes.org/beta/index.php.
Every Tuesday, at 8:30pm, Long
Island Leather N Roses meets in Huntington,
NY. Everyone in the community is welcome. For
information on the group, visit the website at www.lilnr.org.
Wednesday, April 20th 7:00pm - 9:00pm Join
your lifestyle friends in Syracuse,
New York for the HillTop social. For more
information, please email plesurslv1@aol.com.
Wednesday, April 20th 7:30pm - 10:00pm The Rochester
Kink Society is having their general member meeting and movie night. This is
a members only event. For information on the meeting, and what the planned movie
is, contact Tammy through the web form at www.rochesterkinksociety.com/mms_v1/event.php#.
Wednesday, April 20th 7:30pm - 11:00pm Come
listen to a panel of dominant women and submissive men discuss interrogation
styles, edge play, limits, mind fucks, sense-deprivation and non-consensual
scenes in Dominant Women/submissive men, a continuing seminar series at TES.
For seminar information, see the calendar at tes.org/beta/index.php.
Every Wednesday 9:00pm - 4:00am Flesh
Theater, a fetish S&M bar/club, takes place at the Flamingo Club.
For information check out www.fleshtheater.com.
Thursday, April 21st 7:00pm - 10:00pm Albany
Power Exchange is having a meet and greet in the Capital
area. Like a munch, this is held in a vanilla
place. For more information, please email NewsFromAPeX@aol.com.
Thursdays head over to the new Flesh
Theater: Double Thrust fetish theater at the Flamingo East. The doors
open at 9:00pm and the party goes until 3:00am. For more information, click over
to www.fleshtheater.com.
Friday, April 22nd 8:45pm - 10:45pm DomSubFriends
hosts PEP founder Nancy Ava Miller and Mistress Nona, for the workshop Forceful
Fantasy: Exploration Of the Self. Express your fantasies and have the
opportunity to act them out with two great legends in the scene. The workshop is
being held at Paddles. You must be minimum of 18 years old to attend. Admission
is $4 for DSF & affiliate members, and $8 for non-members. For more
information, drop an email to info@DomSubFriends.com.
Saturday, April 23rd 4:00pm - 7:00pm The
Utica Kink Society invites every over 18 years of age to the Leatherstocking
Munch in Utica, NY.
For more information, please email uticakinksociety@yahoo.com.
Saturday, April 23rd 5:00pm - 8:00pm TES
takes a look at Our Everyday Life and Our Conscience/unconscience Association
With Our Individual Spirituality. I'm sure they'll fit bdsm in there as
well. Admission is $10 for TES members and $15 for non-members. For details,
check out the calendar at tes.org/beta/index.php.
Saturday, April 23rd 8:15pm - 10:00pm Come
join Michael and Laura from Paddles
for a pre-club dinner. Location information is available at tes.org/beta/index.php.
Sunday, April 24th 2:00pm - 4:00pm Check out
the open munch in Rochester,
NY. The Rochester
Kink Society hosts this munch, and encourages prospective members and
persons who wish to attend members only events to attend at least one munch. Use
the web form at www.rochesterkinksociety.com/mms_v1/event.php#,
for location information.
Los Angeles and Southern California
For even more adult listings in the Los Angeles
County area, see Jay E. Moyes' The Black List at blackandbluela.com.
Tuesday, April 19th, at 7:00pm, the Sisters
of Perpetual Indulgence are having a general membership meeting. Meetings
are not open to the public. For details, see www.lasisters.org.
Every Tuesday, at 9:00pm, KSEXradio.com
brings you Porn Star Karaoke
at Sardo's in Burbank. It's not a kink event, but everyone in the adult industry
seems to be flocking there to get together. Arrive early, or suffer the long
line to get in. For more information, check out www.pskclub.com.
Wednesday, April 20th 7:00pm - 10:30pm The
largest bdsm social in Southern California takes place tonight, in San
Diego. For more information, check out www.kinkypartys.com/calendar/calendar.html.
Every Wednesday at 10:00pm, the hard women of
the east side come out for Shotgun
at the Gauntlet II. For details, check out gauntletii.com/shotgun.html.
Every Friday night, Club
Dungeon claws it's way to Hollywood. I must say that from reading the
boards, there appears to be a problem with parking at this new location, so
please look for designated parking areas and pack cash for the parking fees. For
location details, check out the forums at www.dungeon-hollywood.com.
Every fucking Friday night, check out Miss
Kitty's Parlour at the Dragonfly. With massage stations, an interactive
play stage and live bdsm shows, there's something for everyone to enjoy at
Kitty's. All the details are available through the website at www.misskittysparlour.com.
Friday nights, Club 7969 in West Hollywood
hosts Illusions, a transgender event. The doors open at 10:00pm, but the
show really doesn't start until after Midnight. Have $5 set aside for the
parking valet. Parking is at a premium there and the fee is worth every penny.
Check it out, head over to the club at 7969 Santa Monica Blvd. in West
Hollywood.
Thursday, April 21st Dragon's
Gate Studios in Orange
County will host a Foot Worship night.
For information on Dragon's Gate, visit the website at www.dragonsgatestudios.com/main_set.html.
Every Saturday morning, the Bash and Dash
munch in San Diego
gives disgruntled scenesters the chance to get it all out. The fun starts at
9:00am, and goes for about four hours. For more information, email tspivey103@aol.com.
Saturday, April 23rd at 12:30pm, Ecdysiastic
Tendencies present their Beginning Pole Dancing class. For details,
check out www.ecdysiastic.com.
Saturday, April 23rd Threshold
and CM Hurt present Spirit
+ Flesh: Ecstatic Body Rites With Energy Pull coordinated by Fakir
Musafar and Cleo DuBois. For details on this incredible experience, check out www.fakir.org/spiritflesh/index.html.
Saturday, April 23rd Art
of Bleeding performs Kiss of Life at Hangar 1018. For details, check out www.artofbleeding.com.
Every Saturday, at 9:00pm, Lair
De Sade presents Unfettered. This is a play party for Lair De Sade
members, their guests, and invitees only. For more information, and to find out
about membership, check out www.LairDeSade.com.
Saturday, April 23rd 9:00pm Passive
Arts presents Club Fetish. For more information, check out www.passivearts.com.
Saturday, April 23rd Dragon's
Gate Studios in Orange
County invites you to their play party. You
must register to attend. For more information on Dragon's Gate, click over to www.dragonsgatestudios.com/main_set.html.
Open every Saturday, for your kinky pleasure, is Bar
Sinister. This club brings audience participation bdsm to Los Angeles in
a style usually reserved for clubs up in the San Francisco Bay. For details, see
www.barsinister.net.
If you're new to the scene, Threshold
has a day for you. Sunday, April 24th, at 1:00pm, Threshold starts off
the day with their D/s Clinic. It's sort of an informal, relaxed
"everything you ever wanted to know about BDSM, but were afraid to
ask" kind of discussion. At 4:00pm is the Basic 4 X 4 Workshop where they
focus on the simple things that make someone scream for more. This week's topic
is Erotic Shaving by Alyssa. Check out www.threshold.org,
for more information.
Sunday, April 24th, at 4:00pm, it's time to
recycle your porn collection. Gauntlet II presents Porn
Again, a swap meet for porn fans to trade their old disks in for new
viewing material. For details, check out gauntletii.com/porn.html.
Sunday, April 24th 8:00pm Widow
Centauri will be doing kinky stand-up comedy at the Comedy Store on Sunset
Blvd. For details, check out www.sexwithrubberchickens.com.
Sunday, April 24th at 9:00pm, the folks from
Bondage Ball are celebrating birthdays at Fetish
Bar Hollywood. This weekend, they are celebrating the birthdays of
Marina St. Mark and James J. For details, check out www.bondageball.com/fetishbar/index.html.
Fang
Club has closed the crypt door for an undetermined time. Check out www.fangclub.com
for more details as they unfold.
Monday nights, at 9:00pm in Canter's Kibbitz
Room on Fairfax, Miss Francine always has something cooked up for the jaded ear.
The first Monday of the month, she brings in the virtuosic Italian rock
guitarist, Alex Masi. The second and fourth Mondays have jazz simmering for your
enjoyment. The third Monday, is usually Absinthe Feyrie Evening. Why not stop by
and relax with a lady from the community with sounds for the soul? Email Sseiriaf4@aol.com
for details.
Every Monday night, Club 7969 in West
Hollywood hosts Illusions, a transgender event. The doors open at
10:00pm, but the show really doesn't start until after Midnight. Have $5 set
aside for the parking valet. Parking is at a premium there and the fee is worth
every penny. Check it out, head over to the club at 7969 Santa Monica Blvd. in
West Hollywood.
Of note across the nation. .
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Every evening Club
Kink is open in both Atlanta,
Georgia and in Florida.
Both have live fetish shows and a variety of kinky activities, as well as a full
working dungeon that attendees can play in. For information on entry, location
and special theme nights, visit the website at www.clubkink.com.
Tuesday, April 19th 7:00pm - 9:00pm Seattle,
Washington Doms and subs are gathering for Ascension:
A Young Adult Discussion Group. The group is made up of scenesters aged 35
and under. For more information, please email ascension@wetspot.org.
Tuesday, April 19th 7:30pm Phoenix,
Arizona The Arizona
Power Exchange sponsors a submissive forum, facilitated by Susan. For
information, see www.arizonapowerexchange.org.
Every Tuesday 6:30pm - 8:00pm Washington, DC
Join The Next Generation (ages 19-35) to eat, drink, and be merry! All are
welcome to join TNG for some great food, drinks, and conversation. Please email TNG@br.org
for more information.
Tuesday, April 19th 6:30pm - 10:00pm Montgomery,
Alabama The Central
Alabama Power Exchange meets for a munch. This is a good time for
non-members to meet the group, as everyone is welcome to attend. For location
information, email to CAPE_Leaders@hotmail.com.
Every Wednesday, from 4:00pm to 10:00pm, is
drop-in night at the Wet Spot
in Seattle, Washington.
Members and their guests are welcome to come and socialize. There is no charge.
Check out www.wetspot.org/dropins.htm#Drop-In_Wednesday,
for more information.
Wednesday, April 20th 7:30pm - 9:30pm Seattle,
Washington The
Wet Spot holds their monthly board meeting this evening. Board meetings are
open to all members. For more information, please email director@wetspot.org.
Every Wednesday 5:00pm - 8:00pm Oregon
Get together with the Portland leather scene at the munch in Portland. For more
information, send an email to dykedadi@comcast.net
Wednesday, April 20th 7:30pm - 10:00pm Phoenix,
Arizona Arizona
Power Exchange discusses the topic, Lending a Hand. How many things
can you do with your hand? It can be your most versatile toy. Not only is it
easy to pack, but the variety of sensations you can invoke with it are amazing.
A $10 donation is asked for the meeting. For more information, click over to www.arizonapowerexchange.org/programming/sm.html#042005.
Every Wednesday 7:00pm - 8:00pm Denver,
Colorado The Kinky Individuals N Kontrol! AA meeting and open
discussion is taking place. This is a perfect forum for those in the BDSM
lifestyle to meet and share their personal experiences with addiction, and the
D/s lifestyle, in an open environment. For directions, visit www.enclavewest.com/events.
Wednesday, April 20th 7:00pm - 8:30pm
Denver, Colorado Subs
Breath discussion group meets at the Enclave
space. For more information on the group, see www.subsbreath.com.
Wednesday, April 20th 7:30pm - 10:00pm Washington,
DC The Black
Rose Society will have a board meeting tonight. Only members may attend. For
information on the meeting, and how to join BR, visit www.br.org/calendar/index.php?go=day&d=20&m=04&y=2005.
Wednesday, April 20th 8:00pm Haverhill,
Massachusetts Check out the non-denomination
munch, tonight. Everyone 21 years of age and older is welcome to attend. For
details, send email to BeccaCG@aol.com.
Thursday, April 21st 7:00pm Phoenix,
Arizona The Arizona
Power Exchange sponsors a Dom Roundtable facilitated by Master
Dennis. For details, check out www.arizonapowerexchange.org.
Thursday, April 21st 7:00pm - 10:00pm Denver,
Colorado The Dominants Only Meeting is
open to all Tops, Doms, and Masters/Mistresses, regardless of orientation or
club affiliation. This is a casual environment to discuss any and all topics of
interest. Admission is free. No pre-registration is required. For more
information, or directions, contact Sid by emailing DenverDomm@aol.com.
Thursday, April 21st 6:00pm Minnesota
There is going to be a munch in Rochester. Everyone age 18 and older is welcome.
If you have questions about this munch, please contact info@msdb-mn.org.
Thursday, April 21st 8:00pm - 10:00pm Washington,
DC The Black
Rose Bondage SIG will have you tied up in knots. This is an invitation only
meeting. For more information, email to Thomas@br.org.
Friday, April 22nd through Sunday, April 24th
Phoenix, Arizona Butchmann's Men's Academy
is going to run a boot camp weekend to get y'all into fighting shape. The
Academy will be held at the APEx
space. For more information on the Academy, visit www.arizonapowerexchange.org.
Friday, April 22nd 8:00pm - 1:00am Denver,
Colorado Enclave
is having a Birthday mixer. No membership is required to attend. Anyone over 18,
with a birthday this month gets in for half price. Cake and consensual spankings
start at 10:00pm. For further information, visit www.enclavewest.com/events.
Friday, April 22nd 8:00pm - 1:00am Denver,
Colorado Men
of Renowned Edgeplay is having a Men's Only Night at The
Harbour. If you are not a member of Denver Harbour, you need to attend
an orientation. A men's only orientation is held at 7:30pm. Go to www.TheDenverHarbour.com
for additional information on the Harbour. For information on MORE, go to www.MORE-Denver.com.
Friday nights 8:00pm - 3:00am Chicago,
Illinois The Leather
Rose Association hosts members only play parties. Guests may attend, if they
are registered in advance by a member via email before noon on the day they wish
to attend. To register a guest, or for further questions about ID requirements
and other parts of this policy, please email Guest-Registry@LRA-Chicago.org
with your member number.
Friday, April 22nd Washington,
DC The
Crucible kicks off the Pony Trials Weekend with a members only
play party. For more information on the event, check out www.the-crucible.com/cgi-bin/calendar/calendar.cgi.
Friday, April 22nd 7:30pm Cape
Cod, Massachusetts There is a munch tonight
in Hyannis. For location information, send email to MLalique@aol.com.
Every Saturday, from 9:00pm to 3:00am The
Wet Spot in Seattle,
Washington hosts the Pansexual BDSM Night
in the dungeon. The evening begins with a leather social. This is a members only
social and play party. For details, email pansexual@wetspot.org.
Saturday, April 23rd 4:00pm Tucson,
Arizona Desert
Dominion presents CBT In A Nutshell with Lolita Wolf. DD and APEX
members enter for $15, non-members pay $20. For class information, visit the
website at http://desertdominion.org/Seminars/Lolita.htm.
Saturday, April 23rd 8:00pm Tucson,
Arizona Desert
Dominion is having a members play party. A current Desert Dominion
membership card, or a card from a reciprocal kink organization, and a picture ID
are absolutely required for entry. For more information, check out desertdominion.org/info.htm#parties.
Saturday, April 23rd 8:00pm Saint
Louis, Missouri FLOG
is having an open social and play party. There is a $10 suggested donation. For
more information on FLOG Saint Louis, click over to www.moflog.org.
Every Saturday, the doors open at 8:00pm in Denver,
Colorado, when Denver
Harbour hosts an open play night. For club information, and details on
these weekly events, check out the club website at www.thedenverharbour.com/homepage.htm.
Saturday, April 23rd Bettendorf,
Iowa Riverbound
is having a play party. This is a members only event. RSVPs for the play party
are necessary. You may RSVP through email to PartyRSVP@Riverbound.net.
Saturday, April 23rd Chicago,
Illinois Galleria
Domain will present a class on the Art of Strip Tease. Strip classes
are popular in the bdsm community, and male submissives are welcome to attend
these types of classes, to learn to dance for their Mistress or Master. For more
information, check out www.galleriadomain.org/%5CCalendar.asp.
Saturday nights 8:00pm - 3:00am Chicago,
Illinois The
Leather Rose Association hosts members only play parties. Guests may attend
if they are registered in advance by a member via email, before noon on the day
of the party. For information on joining LRA, visit lra-chicago.org/index1.htm.
Saturday, April 23rd Washington,
DC The
Crucible celebrates day two of the Pony Trials Weekend with an
open play party. For more information on the event, see the website at www.the-crucible.com/cgi-bin/calendar/calendar.cgi.
Sunday, April 24th 11:00am - 2:00pm Colorado
Springs, Colorado Celebration of Power is
having a brunch munch. The munch is open to anyone interested in bdsm/leather
and over 18 years of age. Email Masterraindance@adelphia.net,
for more information
Sunday, April 24th 2:00pm - 5:00pm Northern
Colorado There is a munch for the Northern
Colorado community, this afternoon. Please visit northcoloradomunch.tripod.com,
for more information.
Sunday, April 24th 4:00pm Cincinnati,
Ohio Power
Exchange and Erotic Role Play is having an Aftercare Discussion and
Roundtable. For more information on the group, click over to at www.bdsm-peergroup.com.
Sunday, April 24th 2:00pm - 5:00pm Central
Vermont Check out the munch in Killington.
For location information, send an email to west820@yahoo.com.
Sunday, April 24th 5:00pm - 8:00pm New
Hampshire There's a munch tonight in Dover.
For more details, send an email to SthnNHDomM@aol.com.
Sunday, April 24th Washington,
DC The
Crucible celebrates day three of the Pony Trials Weekend with an
open play party. For club information, and a party FAQ, visit www.the-crucible.com/cgi-bin/calendar/calendar.cgi.
Sunday, April 24th
Portland, Maine The Coastal
United Fetish Society has a full afternoon planned for Maine's bdsm
community. They'll start off with a class and demo at 4:00pm. The class has an
$8 admission for CUFS members and $12 admission for non-members. A munch follows
at 6:00pm with $3 admission for members and $5 admission for non-members.
They'll wrap up with a play party for members only. For more details, visit the
website at www.cufsmaine.org.
Every Monday 6:00pm - 9:00pm Eugene,
Oregon The good folks of Eugene meet for a bdsm lifestyle munch. For
directions, please email to conradh@efn.org.
Monday, April 25th 7:15pm Phoenix,
Arizona The Arizona
Power Exchange gets into the art of corporal punishment with Spank Your
Heart Out. The class is open to all APEx and DD members and their guests.
For more information on attending, see the website at www.arizonapowerexchange.org.
Every Monday night in Portland,
Maine Goths and Industrial fans flock to Fetish
Night where two monitored play areas invite the night crawlers to get their
ya-yas out. The doors are open from 8:00pm -1:00am Everyone 21 years of age and
over is welcome. There is a $4 cover for vanilla dress or $3 entry for those in
fetish attire. Email DeHuman8@maine.rr.com
for more information.
Mark Your Calendars. . . .
Saint Louis, Missouri - Friday,
April 29th through Sunday, May 1st Saint Louis Leather and Lace present Beat
Me in Saint Louis IX. Registration is now open! For event information,
click over to www.stl3.com/events/bmsl/home.
Los Angeles, California - Thursday,
April 28th through Sunday, May 1st DomCon
Los Angeles is coming to town. This is one of the largest fetish
conventions Southern California has to offer. While Femdom oriented, the event
is open to all BDSM preferences. Vendor space has already sold out. There will
be demonstrations, workshops, play parties, and socials throughout the event.
There will also be an exclusive art show on the last day of the event. For
details, check out www.domconla.com.
Albany, New York - Saturday,
April 30th 7:00pm - Midnight Albany
Power Exchange invites you to the Capital Ball VI. Tickets are $35
for members and $40 for all others. To get more information, please email NewsFromAPeX@aol.com.
Palm Springs, California
- Friday, May 20th through Sunday, May 22nd Women from all over the
country will be gathering to share in exciting workshops and play at Desire.
One of the unique features of Desire is that participants have the opportunity
to have a one-on-one session with one of the presenters. Confirmed presenters
include: Amanda Wildefyre, Celeste, Felice Shays, Glenda Rider, Joasie, Lolita,
Margi, Midori, Olga, Sharrin Specter, Vi Johnson and Vic Shultz. Registration is
now open! Participants who pre-register by April 1st will have the opportunity
to participate in our pre-drawing which will maximize their chance of getting a
session with the presenter of their choice. For more information about this
event please visit www.desireleatherwomen.com.
Montgomery, Alabama - Friday,
May 13th through Sunday, May 15th CAPE
Spring Retreat gives the bdsm and leather community a chance to have a
vacation. The play never ends with dungeon parties every evening, and time to
socialize and relax during the day. Please contact Cape_Leaders@hotmail.com
for further information
Washington, DC - Saturday,
May 14th and Sunday May 15th The Revenge of the Submissives takes
place at The Crucible!
Tickets are $35 per person, and your entry benefits the Woodhull Freedom
Foundation. VIP weekend passes are available for $75 and includes the Saturday
soiree and a private dungeon party and brunch on Sunday. VIP passes need to be
purchased in advance of the event. For more information on the event, see www.the-crucible.com.
Pennsylvania
- Thursday, May 26th through Tuesday, May 31st The Crucible does it again
with Camp
Crucible: Admiral's Revenge. This unique pirate theme fantasy roleplay
camp is held in a beautiful, 360 acre private estate, within easy driving
distance from New York, Boston, Philadelphia and Washington, D.C. Check out www.campcrucible.com/Revenge/front.html.
Go! Right now!
Chicago, Illinois
- Friday, May 27th through Sunday, May 30th Workshops, demos, play space
and vendors from around the country draw one and all to Shibaricon
2005. Visit www.shibaricon.com
for more information.
San Dimas, California - Saturday,
June 4th All the leather tribes of LA will come together for the Southern
California Leather Gathering. Bring meat for the BBQ, stretch out in the
sun, and hang with some of the coolest kinksters in the Southland. Volunteer
sign ups have begun. For details, email ScrappieXX@aol.com.
New York
- The NYC Fetish
Marathon III will take place Wednesday, June 1st through Sunday, June 5th.
Once again this great celebration of all things BDSM & Fetish is sponsored
by The Eulenspiegel Society (TES).
Any and all Fetish or BDSM themed events happening between June 1st - 5th 2005
are welcome for consideration. Some events in the past have included Night Club
Parties, Play Parties, Art Exhibits, Piercing Demos, Book Signings, Cocktail
Parties, Brunches, Movie Screenings and many more. Please send some basic
information on your planned event or event idea along with your contact
information to info@FetishMarathon.com
. You can visit the NYCFMIII website at www.FetishMarathon.com.
Please remember that even though we do our best to
give you the most accurate information available, you should always check with
the contacts given in these listings to confirm the times, dates and venues
before planning to attend any of these events.
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a play party, BDSM related event, or kinky classes you'd like to list*, email us
at blackandblueusa@myfastmail.com.
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Domina and a major contributor to the current success of this
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Resources:
Hop
in the pond! Tips and tricks for the newbie or the experienced Web Guru
from the only adult web biz site that pays you to post.
MaxFisch.com: The source for Female Domination on the web.
DrkDesyre.com:
Events and groups listed from across California and more.
Leather
Leadership Conference:
National group promoting leadership and networking for our community.
smOdyssey:
San Jose, CA based BDSM organization.
Society of Janus:
San Francisco outreach and educational BDSM organization.
Threshold:
Los Angeles outreach and educational BDSM organization.
Los
Angeles Radical and Wicked Women (LARAWW):
California Women's only BDSM organization.
The
Los Angeles Leather Coalition:
California fetish and lifestyle educational and outreach organization.
West
Coast Power Exchange: Camarillo,
California bdsm organization.
Club
X: San Diego, California BDSM organization.
The
Triskeli Guild:
Bellingham, Washington BDSM organization.
People
Exchanging Power - Buffalo, NY:
New York BDSM organization
DomSubFriends:
East Coast based BDSM organization.
The Eulenspiegel
Society(TES): New York outreach and educational BDSM organization.
Albany
Power Exchange (APeX):
New York based BDSM organization.
Rochester
Kink Society (RKS): New York based BDSM organization.
Long
Island Leather N Roses:
Huntington, New York based BDSM club.
The
Wet Spot:
Seattle, Washington based Pan Sexual BDSM organization.
Seattle
Men in Leather:
Washington Leathermen's organization and education classes.
Nevada
Women of Leather:
Women only BDSM organization.
Desert
Dominion:
Tucson, Arizona based BDSM organization.
Arizona
Power Exchange
(APEx): Phoenix based BDSM organization.
Arizona
Amazons: Women's BDSM group.
Arizona
BDSM:
General listings for the greater Arizona community.
Arizona
D/s:
A private BDSM play group.
Arizona
Leather Coalition:
Pansexual community listings for Greater Arizona.
Arizona
Spanking: Arizona Bun-warming fans.
Arizona
Women of Leather:
Arizona women's group.
Leatherlords:
Arizona men's bdsm group.
The
Next Generation-Arizona:
Arizona pansexual group for those 19 to 38.
Phoenix
Boys of Leather:
Arizona men's leather group.
PEP
- Saint Louis:
Missouri branch of People Exchanging Power national BDSM organization.
Tulsa
Dungeon Society:
Oklahoma based BDSM organization.
People Exchanging Power - Oklahoma (OPEP): Oklahoma based BDSM organization.
Houston-PEP:
Texas outreach and educational BDSM organization.
The
National Leather Association - Dallas:
Texas branch of the NLA education and outreach organization.
Enclave:
Colorado based BDSM organization.
Denver
Harbor: Colorado based BDSM club and organization.
Denver
Gateway: Colorado BDSM organization.
Dark
Fortress Dungeon: Colorado based Gorean
culture society.
Denver
Fold: Colorado based BDSM organization.
The
Rocky Mountain Power Exchange: Colorado
based BDSM organization.
People
Exchanging Power - Denver: Colorado
branch of the national PEP BDSM organization.
New
Orleans Bondage and Leather Enthusiasts (NOBLE): Louisiana BDSM outreach
organization.
Ohio
SMART: Middleburg Heights BDSM
organization.
Carpe
Diem: Ohio based BDSM organization.
Riverbound:
Upper Iowa regional BDSM outreach and education organization.
Minnesota
Stocks, Debentures, and Bonds: Minnesota
BDSM organization.
The
Leather Rose Association (LRA): Chicago, Illinois BDSM organization.
Windy
City Bondage Club: Chicago BDSM
organization.
The
Galleria Domain: Chicago, Illinois Fem
Dom lifestyle group.
The
Black Rose Society (BR): Washington,
DC outreach and educational BDSM organization.
SigmaDC:
Washington, DC BDSM educational BDSM organization.
The Boston Dungeon Society:
Massachusetts
BDSM organization.
MOB:
New England based Women only BDSM outreach and educational organization.
The
National Leather Association - New England:
Boston branch of the National Leather Association.
South
Alabama Bondage & Leather Enthusiasts (SABLE): Alabama
based BDSM organization.
Central
Alabama Power Exchange(CAPE):
Alabama based BDSM organization.
Kink
Aware Professionals:
A resource list of leather friendly Doctors, Lawyers, and helpful folk.
National
Coalition for Sexual Freedom: A resource list of national organizations of
interest to the BDSM community.
QSM:
BDSM mail order bookstore out of San Francisco. They offer great classes too.
Your
Fetish: Online
BDSM book store with some hot stuff.
665,
Leather From Hell (or right next door):
Kick ass leather source and major supporter of the LA community.
Stormy
Leather: Leather retailer and distributor.
Madame
S: Leather retailer and distributor in San Francisco.
The
Stockroom: Leather
retailer and distributor in the Silverlake area.
Fetishmodel.com:
An excellent resource for fetish models looking for work.
Yahoo
Safecall List: A
contact to have if meeting someone for the first time.
The
Leather Journal: Men's Leather lifestyle website and organization.
www.danger4doms.com:
A list of potentially dangerous clients and safety tips for professionals.
NLA
Domestic Violence Project: Leather
folk against domestic abuse.
Passive
Arts:Dungeon
and Club in Los Angeles, holding special events and classes.
Lair
de Sade:Dungeon and Club in Los Angeles, holding special events and classes.
San
Francisco Citadel: Dungeon
and meeting place in the Bay Area, holding special events and classes.
KSEXradio.com:
Live streaming media net radio focusing on porn and fetish celebrities and
events.
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